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● Laura Thornberry ● Lifestyle Blogger ● London Based ●

 AD| Online dating has definitely become the new normal, and hundreds of singles are signing up to websites and apps in search of love. Over the last few years, the dating scene has been somewhat disrupted due to the COVID-19 pandemic and the future of dating will most likely follow a more uncertain path as we all get our heads round the lifting of restrictions and getting life "back to normal". 

Nowadays, most people believe online dating as a great way to meet someone new and to form new connections and relationships. Meeting people online - whether that's via a UK dating site or the latest online dating app can be extremely nerve-racking, especially for those who haven't dated in a while, but it can also sometimes be dangerous, especially if you aren't 100% careful and making sure to follow certain precautions. But overall, online dating has definitely become more socially acceptable, more common and more normal than ever before. Here are 6 dating tips to help you be more successful in the online dating world.

ONLINE DATING

It can be very hard to know exactly when you'll be ready to date again. Especially just after a breakup from a previous relationship or from being single and spending lots of time alone. Before you even think about engaging in the dating world, the most important thing to consider is that you make sure you are ready to start dating. You need to make sure that you're in the right head space and mind-set to be meeting new people and opening up to others about relationships and dating. You should ideally try to be as open minded as possible as well as be mentally and emotionally prepared to get back on the dating apps. The quote “love yourself first and everything else falls into line" is so relevant here.

Being completely honest about what you want and who you are makes it more likely that others will want to match, begin talking to you and end up meeting with you if things are going well. It's important not only for yourself, but for others to be aware of knowing what you want and what you're looking for. Make sure to be 100% genuine, real and honest with others, and especially with yourself. State your intentions clearly to ensure you're doing what is best for you and to make sure you don't lead anyone on. Whether you're using online dating to build friendships, looking for love, dating for professionals or just testing it out, make sure you're honest with yourself and who you are talking to.

Find the best dating site for you. Choosing a dating site that's perfect for you takes time and research, as there are so many out there right now catering to so many different people; whether that's by age, location, religion or sexuality - whether that's dating in your local area, single parents looking for company or over 50's dating - there is something for everyone. Sometimes you won't strike lucky from just joining one app, it might take signing up to a few to get yourself eased into online dating and to meet people who share common interests with you.

DATING APPS

Everyone knows that beginning dating and starting a relationship isn't something that usually happens overnight. Taking your time and being patient is probably the best direction to take when looking for love online. You'll want to make sure your dating journey runs as smoothly and naturally as possible. Spend time getting to know people both online and off. This allows you to see if you have that initial spark, those things in common and if you sense any chemistry between the both of you. There's simply no point rushing into anything too soon, it can become stressful, overwhelming and can making your love life not enjoyable.

Create a good online dating profile. Your dating profile should give a short and sweet overview of who you are as a person and make you stand out from the crowd. There are so many people these days logging on to dating sites and apps, so use this opportunity wisely to express your personality, share your hobbies and what you're looking for etc, allowing people to see an understand who you really are and what you're about. When writing up your profile, make sure to include short, to the point sentences - not paragraphs. People don't have all day to be reading essays, save the in-depth information for when you meet up outside of the dating app. If you want to share your playful, humour side, include emojis to make it fun and make you stand out from the competition.

Not only is a good dating bio essential in being successful online, choosing your best photographs will also help in building a great online profile. Making sure to use some of your most recent and relevant photographs - choose images that are visually interesting and reflect who you are and what you like. Whether you love to travel and have some great holiday snaps or you're into sport and have some amazing memories from previous competitions - be sure to include them as this helps others get to know you better online, before you meet in real life. For those who love a good selfie, pick smiling selfies as these make you look more approachable and friendly helping you to increase those online matches. And finally, when choosing your photographs for your profile, try to avoid using all group photos - this can make it very difficult for potential matches to know exactly who you are, and may put people off from connecting with you as they are unsure.

Are you currently using any dating apps? What other tips would you recommend for those looking for love online?
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AD| Moving in with a partner is an exciting milestone in any relationship. It also has its challenges as you both learn about each other’s idiosyncrasies and quirks – and argue about who’s turn it is to do the dishes! One of the most enjoyable elements of living with a partner for the first time is decorating your place together.

The bedroom is one of the most important rooms to get right. It is a space where you will need to be able to relax and unwind together and ensure that you have space for all your belongings. Here are some of the essential things to buy for your first-ever shared bedroom.

BEDROOM INTERIOR

Storage
One of the most crucial elements is ensuring there is enough storage space for both of you. This can get tricky if you’re both shopaholics! At a minimum, you will each need your own space in a wardrobe and chest of drawers. Whether you can share one of each between you both is the next question. If you have limited space in the bedroom, it may help to consider different storage solutions. For instance, you could get some boxes to store clothes under the bed or use in-built storage to save space.

Curtains 
Curtains are essential for both privacy and getting a good night’s sleep. It is important to choose curtains that appeal to both of you, so it may help to go window shopping to get an idea of how your home décor tastes align. You could choose from many different kinds of curtains, from insulating curtains to blackout or lightweight curtains. It can help if you’re both on the same page about what you want from your curtains and do your best to compromise when you disagree.

Lighting
Lighting is all-important in the bedroom. Bedrooms are typically multi-functional rooms where we do everything from folding laundry to packing bags for holidays to sleeping. Therefore, it can help to invest in lighting of varying types so that you will always have the best lighting for the situation. You could consider a dimmer switch that will allow you bright clear lights when doing housework and mood lighting for evenings in bed. Bedside lamps are also a must for any couple who tend to have different sleep schedules.

Mattress
Your first mattress with a partner can make a big difference to your quality of sleep. It is crucial that you are both satisfied with the mattress you choose – this is one thing that it can be detrimental to compromise on. While mattress shopping can sometimes be tedious, there are ways to make the process easier. For instance, you could use an online comparison site to get an idea of the options out there and make a shortlist to try out in person. Check out this list from The Mattress Guide that answers the question: what is the best mattress?

BEDROOM INTERIOR

Pillows
Pillows are often simpler to buy as a couple, as you can each choose the pillows that suit you and your needs best. It is helpful to test out different pillows to find the ones that will provide the best support and enable you both to get the best sleep possible.

Mirror
Mirrors are a great way to help make a small room look larger, bring in extra reflected light and, of course, get ready in front of. You could consider a wide hanging mirror that has plenty of room for both of you to do your final preparations for the day in front of, or choose a full-length mirror to help you both decide on outfits.

Dressing Table
A dressing table can be the perfect addition to a shared bedroom. If you have space, you could invest in a large dressing table designed to fit two or choose a more traditional dressing table that you can each use in turn. The dresser could contain makeup, aftershave, cufflinks and jewellery – essentially any of the finishing touches for when you’re getting ready for an event.

Colour Scheme
Choosing a colour scheme that you both like can be a challenge. It may help to choose a neutral theme so that you can both incorporate decorations and ornaments in your favourite colours. White, beige, pale blue and grey are all great colours that contrast nicely with most other colours.

Fragrance
The scent of a room is an often under-utilised element of home decoration. Our sense of smell is closely linked with emotion and memory, meaning that the right scent can play a massive part in creating a relaxing and enjoyable bedroom environment. Again, it is crucial that you choose a fragrance that both of you enjoy. You could consider experimenting with different scents or using essential oils and room sprays to make your bespoke home scent. It is vital not to use fragrances too heavily as an overpowering home scent can end up being the opposite of relaxing.

Do you currently share a bedroom with your partner? What other home décor essentials have you included in your living space?
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AD| Beauty is in clear, healthy, and glowing skin. Clear and healthy skin is a reflection of your overall health and wellness. Beautiful skin needs exceptional skincare. Start your day with a healthy skincare routine to enhance the glow and natural beauty of your skin.

You feel embarrassed if you have skin with flaws or spotty skin. Occasional pimples, blemishes, adult acne, and hormonal acne are pretty stressful. Flawless skin doesn’t happen overnight, and it requires effort and commitment. Plan a skincare regime and stay committed to following it regularly. If you have spotty skin, don’t stress yourself. Instead, try a few remedies that can help you achieve glowing skin.

SKINCARE FACE MASK

1. Oats, Lemon, and Honey
It is vital that even before you try any remedies, you follow a strict hygiene regimen. You should act like a germaphobe and keep your skin clean to avoid any infections. The natural properties of oats make it a great skincare product. It treats blemishes, skin spots, exfoliates the skin, and is a natural oil absorber. Lemon contains vitamin C and citric acid and has natural antibacterial properties. Honey contains antioxidants and acts as a mediator that binds oats and lemon. As a result, it creates the best anti-inflammatory exfoliating skin brightening mask.

Take a handful of oats in a bowl and add a half teaspoon of honey. Add a few drops of lemon to the paste of oats and honey. Blend all three ingredients well and apply the mixture to your face. Rub the oats gently on your face, move your fingers in a circular motion as if exfoliating. Areas having dark spots and blackheads need more work. Let the mixture on your face for 15 minutes. Then wash off with warm water.

2. Tea Tree Oil, Honey, and Yogurt
Tea tree oil contains natural antibacterial and anti-inflammatory properties. It is very effective against dark spots and acne. A combination of tea tree oil, yoghurt, and honey do wonders. Take a teaspoon of honey and a teaspoon of yoghurt in a bowl. Mix 5-7 drops of tea tree oil to the mixture of honey and yoghurt. Apply this mixture all over the dark spots on your face and let it rest there for 15-20 minutes. Then, wash your face with lukewarm water.

3. Baking Soda and Lemons
Baking soda is effective against dark spots on your face and body. It works to dry the excess sebum from the skin and lightens the dark spots till they disappear. Mix a teaspoon of baking soda in a little water. Apply this mixture to areas having dark spots and leave it for 15 minutes. Then, wash your face or other body parts with lukewarm water. In addition, you can also add a few drops of lemon into the mixture of baking soda and water. It will become an exfoliating scrub. Rub this mixture gently onto the dark spots in a circular motion. This way, it removes the dead skin cells leaving your skin clear and spot-free.

4. Turmeric and Olive Oil
Turmeric has natural anti-inflammatory properties. It is best to bring out the natural glow and evens your skin tone. Olive oil helps to moisturise the skin. Take a pinch of turmeric in a bowl and add one teaspoon of olive oil to it. Apply this on your face and leave it for 10-15 minutes. Wash with lukewarm water. You will notice the dark spots have become lighter.

5. Jojoba Oil
Jojoba oil is naturally extracted from the seeds of the jojoba shrub. Jojoba oil is a natural waxy substance. This waxy substance heals wounds, acne lesions and repairs damaged skin. The compounds in the jojoba oil reduce swelling around pimples, redness, whiteheads, and inflamed lesions. Take half a teaspoon of jojoba oil in a teaspoon of Aloe Vera gel, cream, or clay mask. Apply this on your face gently and leave it for 15 minutes. Then, wash your face with lukewarm water. You can also take few drops of jojoba oil on a cotton pad and rub it gently on acne spots.

6. Yoghurt
Yoghurt is one of the natural products for skincare. It contains probiotics, vitamin A, and vitamin D that are useful for skin regeneration. Yoghurt targets pimples and acne spots and moisturises your skin as well. Don’t go for flavoured yoghurt, rather a plain natural yoghurt. Take a little quantity of yoghurt and apply it to your pimples or acne spots. Leave it there for 30 minutes, and then wash your face with lukewarm water. See the wonder it does by drying out your pimple and soothing the oily skin.

7. Witch Hazel
Witch hazel is a plant extract and acts as an astringent. It reduces acne inflammation, clears pores, and targets excess oil. Witch hazel is an excellent treatment for spotty skin. You can also pair it with other acne fighters. Raw witch hazel can be applied like a toner to your face. Pour drops of witch hazel on a cotton pad until it gets moist. Gently tap this cotton pad on your face. It will cleanse and brighten your skin. For spotty skin, apply witch hazel directly on your acne spots and let it rest for 10 minutes. Then, wash your face with lukewarm water and notice the wonder it does. 

What are your favourite skincare products?
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GUEST POST | When you’re moving anywhere, it can be a stressful and difficult time- and it can sometimes feel daunting to think about all the many things that need to be sorted before moving into your first flat or house.

I recently moved into my first flat, moving out of my family home and in with my partner after a long period of long-distance. This was a big step, and at times it felt overwhelming as we prepared for the big move. Even though I moved away to University in a different city a couple of years ago, this was a totally different experience- and one that really taught me a few things that I would do differently if I were to do it again.

Below, I’ve put together 5 ways to prepare for moving into your first ever flat. Whether you’re moving into a furnished flat with your partner, or you’re about to buy your first home, I hope these tips help you prepare for the big move!

MODERN FLAT DECOR

1. Buy the essentials
When preparing to move into your first flat, it’s a good idea to make sure you have all the essentials before moving in. Make sure to buy all the basics for your first few days, and avoid that panic when you realise you don’t have any cutlery, or a pan for cooking your food. You don’t need to buy every single thing before you move in, but just having a few of the essentials can help to calm your nerves as you prepare to start out on your own.

2. Maximise your space
If you’re moving into your first flat, chances are you’ll be living in a relatively small space- and it may be smaller than anywhere you’ve lived before! Make sure to learn how to maximise the space you’ve got and choose furniture, products, and decorations that make the most of this space. You want to create a beautiful but tidy living space that works for you and anyone you’re living with.

3. Have fun!
When you’re moving into your first flat, don’t forget to have fun! Preparing to move into your first flat is such a fun and exciting experience, and there’s lots to enjoy about this time in your life. For example, you get to buy homeware essentials, cute decorations, and you might even receive fun moving in gifts all ready for your first night. Even though there’s lots to do, there’s also a lot to look forward to- and when you’ve moved into your flat don’t forget to celebrate this exciting occasion with a toast!

MODERN FLAT DECOR

4. Make an inventory
When I moved into my first place, the estate agent’s arranged a full inventory for the flat, and they made sure any damaged furniture was documented for the landlord. But if you don’t receive an inventory for your first flat, make one! You need to make sure you don’t get charged for any damages that aren’t your fault when you eventually move out, and it can never hurt to make a note of everything your property has- whether you’re renting or buying.

5. Save up
When you’re preparing to move into your first flat, it’s a great idea to save up a bit of money. Take it from me, you’ll be spending a lot in your first month! Up front charges such as your deposit will be a one-off, but there’s bound to be unexpected charges as you navigate life on your own and buy bits for your new home. It’s always a good idea to have a bit of money saved up, and avoid any money panic in your first couple of months to give yourself a little leeway. If you’re saving to buy your dream home, you might also thank yourself for having a head-start.

If you’re moving into your first flat, there are so many things to consider- and it can be easy to get overwhelmed by everything that you need to prepare and organise before the big moving day. However, there are a few important ways to prepare for moving into your first flat- and find a way to make your move as fun, enjoyable, and smooth as possible!

Have you recently moved into your own flat/home? What other preparation tips do you have?

Guest post written by Eleanor Jones
Blog: notsomoderngirl.com  /  Twitter: @notsomoderngirl
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AD| Exams can be stressful at any age, usually because they lead to certain opportunities, such as admission into university or a dream job. A little stress is a good thing because it motivates us to try our best, but sometimes it can become too overwhelming to deal with, leading to various mental health issues. I have teamed up with an international school in London to share some advice on how to cope with exam stress.

EXAM PREPARATION

Make Healthy Lifestyle Choices
You may be tempted to pull some all-nighters to cram in extra revision, but that is not good for your health and will make it harder for you to retain the information and concentrate the next day. The same applies to drinking energy drinks and unhealthy snacks; they’ll give you a temporary high, but this will be followed by a crash in your energy, and you’ll feel irritable. 

With that said, make sure you’re taking care of yourself during exam period. Get enough exercise and sleep (around 8 hours per night), and eat a healthy, balanced diet. A short walk once a day will help clear your head and put you in the right frame of mind to continue studying. If you don’t make healthy lifestyle choices, you may put yourself at risk of getting sick because your immune system will be compromised, and you may have heightened anxiety.

Prepare a Study Schedule
It may sound boring, but preparing a study schedule will help you feel more organised and therefore less stressed in the run-up to your exams. Make sure to include additional study time for the subject areas you are struggling with, because there’s no point in spending equal amounts of time revising topics you’re both ace at and rubbish at, as you’ll start to panic about the more challenging areas.

Take Frequent Breaks
You should include regular breaks in your study sessions because it’s important to relax, stretch, have a snack or socialise so that you don’t go stir crazy. Psychologists say that we can only concentrate for around 30-45 minutes, so set a timer and allow yourself some time away from your desk, even if it’s just for 5 minutes.

Revise with Peers
If you know anyone that will be taking the same exam(s) as you, you should consider studying with them. Research as found that revising with peers is effective because you can help one another, while also providing emotional support, which can help you feel more confident. Quizzing each other and talking through problems can help you retain information.

Believe in Yourself
Set yourself realistic goals and believe in yourself. If you don’t think you’ll be able to get an A*, aim for a B so that you don’t feel as pressured. If you have carried out plenty of revision and have realistic expectations, you should be proud of yourself and how hard you have tried so far. Try and replace negative thoughts about failure with positive ones, such as “No matter what grade I get, I know that I have tried my best and have already come so far”.

Seek Out Support
Don’t be afraid to lean on your loved ones for support. Talk to someone you know will help calm you down, rather than increase your stress levels by putting pressure on you. Parents with steep expectations, for example, probably aren’t the best people to go to for a shoulder to cry on. Other relatives, friends and tutors could be options of people you could speak to for some emotional support.

Do you have any exams coming up? How are you preparing for them and coping with stress?
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